18. Mexican-Filipina. Right-brained, full time Wanderlust-Adventurer.
What is the appropriate age for love?
To all the parents out there especially to those fathers who seem to be so protective to their daughters you really have to let them fly. I mean life isn’t something you can be sure of. I know for a fact that you don’t want us to end up getting hurt nor being in a situation we’d always regret for the rest of our lives but how are we supposed to learn when we couldn’t even learn from ourselves. We can never learn from your mistakes. Don’t get me wrong, we NEED you. Your support and especially your guidance but you gotta let us live our lives. You shouldn’t keep us from being who we want to be from who we’re supposed to be, because being who we are is who we’re supposed to be. We know you only want the best for us but We have to be in our own life..
When it comes to love, you seem to be so insecure with our boyfriends. You will always be our first love and you’ll always be THAT MAN who’ll love us till the end of time. But why can’t you just see that they love us like how you love mom?. For instance, you see us with our boyfriend so happy and so inlove. Why do you seem to be so “adjdhjk” about it when you’re supposed to be happy that you’re little princess is loved and cared by someone rather than beaten up or left heartbroken. Aren’t you supposed to see their love for us with how they treat us? You tell us WE ARE TOO YOUNG FOR LOVE. But let me ask you this question, WHAT IS THE APPROPRIATE AGE FOR LOVE? I mean, how are we supposed to tell our hearts to stop beating for someone? How could we tell ourselves to stop falling for someone? How are we supposed to keep ourselves from being happy in the arms of the person we want to be with until we grow old? The person we want to see every morning when we wake up and also before we shut our eyes to sleep.
Lastly, let us love and get ourselves hurt, because we can never live our lives if you keep us from living it. You had your turn; it’s time for us to have ours. There’s no perfect age for love, there is only perfect time and there may not be a perfect person, but with the right one.
- liesanddrama reblogged this from elephantlovespiggy